Today’s post is adapted from A Christmas Question by Charles Spurgeon, which is now available as a free eBook from The Gospel Project. Get your free your copy here.
If this child who now lies before the eyes of your faith, wrapped in swaddling clothes in Bethlehem’s manger, is born to you, then you are born again! If any man tells me that Christ is his Redeemer, although he has never experienced regeneration, that man utters what he does not know; his religion is vain, and his hope is a delusion. Only those who are born again can claim the babe in Bethlehem as being theirs. “But,” says one, “how am I to know whether I am born again or not?”
If this child who now lies before the eyes of your faith, wrapped in swaddling clothes in Bethlehem’s manger, is born to you, then you are born again! If any man tells me that Christ is his Redeemer, although he has never experienced regeneration, that man utters what he does not know; his religion is vain, and his hope is a delusion. Only those who are born again can claim the babe in Bethlehem as being theirs. “But,” says one, “how am I to know whether I am born again or not?”
An Inward Renewal
Answer this question also by another:- Has there been a change effected by divine grace within you?
- Are your loves the very opposite of what they were?
- Do you now hate the vain things you once admired, and do you seek after that precious pearl which you at one time despised?
- Is your heart thoroughly renewed in its object?
- Can you say that the bent of your desire is changed?
- That your face is Zionward, and your feet set upon the path of grace?
- That where your heart once longed for deep draughts of sin, it now longs to be holy?
- Where you once loved the pleasures of the world, they have now become as draff and dross to you, for you only love the pleasures of heavenly things, and are longing to enjoy more of them on earth, that you may be prepared to enjoy a fullness of them hereafter?
An Outward Transformation
Although the main matter of regeneration lies within, yet it manifests itself without. Say, then, has there been a change in you in the exterior? Do you think that others who look at you would be compelled to say, “This man is not what he used to be?”- Do not your companions observe a change?
- Have they not laughed at you for what they think to be your hypocrisy, your prudishness, or your sternness?
- If an angel should follow you into your secret life, should track you to your closet and see you on your knees, do you think that he would detect something in you that he could never have seen before?
Deacon Ralph D. Parks says
Hi Aaron….
Enjoyed the blog. Would it be possible for me to use it, for my Men’s Ministry group I teach here in the DC area. It’s just a small group of about 5 -10 men.
Thanks
Ralph
Aaron Armstrong says
Of course!
Madison says
Hello Aaron!
I love this blog post, and I was wondering; I truly believe I’m born again, but is it normal that I still mess up from time to time? I struggle with anger issues and give in to getting angry without any thought. The Holy Spirit convicts me when I’ve done something wrong, but is it normal that born again believers can still struggle with certain things such as anger and outbursts? I’ve asked God to lead me to be slow to anger and quick to love, but I still mess up and get ugly with people without even noticing sometimes.
Thanks,
Madison S.
Aaron Armstrong says
Hi Madison, it is normal to continue to sin, even if after we have been born again. As fallen people living in a fallen world, we will never be fully free from the effects of sin (or the echoes of our previous enslavement to it), but we can expect to sin less as we strive to be more like Christ and God works in us (Phil 2:12). Keep praying that you would be sensitive to the Spirit’s conviction, and that He would help you see what prompts or triggers your moments of anger to help you turn from it.
Spence Culpepper says
Hello Aaron. It seems the scriptures are clear about the nature of man before encountering God being hell bent and full of evil. It also seems clear that regeneration radically shifts the entire mindset and heart motivation. Then, when I think about the very term “born again”, I naturally think about a very powerful and memorable experience where God infuses a man (or woman) with His Holy Spirit which opens that person’s eyes to the newness of life in Christ. My question then is this: how is it possible for people NOT to know when this event actually happened in their life? I’m not trying to be judgemental in my question. I’m geniunely trying to reconcile the scriptures which consistently show a memorable moment in the life of a believer when they encounter Jesus and many of today’s testimonies which mention they don’t remember a point in time where they met Jesus and who claim that they didn’t live an egregious lifestyle like others who have more pronounced testimonies have. Can you help me with this?